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Lichtwald

Celebrating the Life of Sandra Lichtwald

If you’re reading this, chances are Mom has already found Dad, wrapped him in the biggest hug, met Jesus face to face, and is probably asking Heaven if Elvis is putting on a concert anytime soon.

With hearts that are broken but overflowing with love and gratitude, we celebrate the life of our extraordinary mom, Sandra “Sandy” Lichtwald, who entered her heavenly home on 14 July 2026, at the age of 83.

To know her was to love her. She was one of a kind—strong, determined, fiercely loyal, and just stubborn enough to keep life interesting. Once she made up her mind, there was very little anyone could do to change it. She was feisty, quick-witted, and loved a good laugh. Whether she was pulling a prank, teasing someone she loved, or laughing until she cried, she had a way of bringing joy wherever she went.

Above everything else, she loved Jesus, our dad, her girls, grands and great-grands and of course, Elvis. Those were the great loves of her life, and she wore each of them proudly. Her faith carried her through every season, her love for Dad never faded, and being our mom was the greatest privilege she ever claimed.

She was the very definition of a Mama Bear. Her love wasn’t quiet—it was fierce, unwavering, and protective. If you belonged to her, you never had to wonder where you stood. She would stand between you and any storm, celebrate every victory as if it were her own, and remind you that family always comes first.

She leaves behind the greatest joys of her life: her daughters, Lori (Dave) Maederer and Juli Bell; her beloved grandchildren, Jacqui (Tyler) Ruiz, Zach (Skyla) Maederer, Kara Maederer, Kailea Bell, and Chase Turner; and her precious great-grandchildren, Jocelyn Krois, Kaden and Tristan Ruiz. She also leaves behind many extended family, countless dear friends who lovingly called her their “bonus mom,” a title she earned simply by loving others as if they were her own.

She was preceded in death by her Hubby Hero, and our dad, Jerome “Jerry”; her parents, Bruce and Hazel Peacock; her brother Hoyt Peacock; her sister and brother-in-law Wanda (Bob) Hudson; and her brother-in-law Richard Novak. While our hearts ache here on earth, we smile knowing she is once again by Dad’s side, where she longed to be, reunited with those she loved most, and forever in the presence of her Savior.

Mom retired after a career at Newcastle Elementary School, leaving an impact far beyond the school halls. She formed lifelong friendships and left lasting impressions on students, families, coworkers, and neighbors. She had a remarkable gift for making people feel seen, heard, welcomed, and loved.

There are simply not enough words to express our gratitude to Eric Bell and Kailea Bell for the extraordinary compassion, patience, and selfless love they poured into Mom during the last two and a half years of her life. They faithfully walked beside her through the heartbreak of dementia, meeting each difficult day with grace, gentleness, and unwavering devotion. Because of their tireless care, Mom was able to remain where she found the greatest comfort—at home, surrounded by those who loved her most. They gave her dignity when the disease tried to steal it, laughter when the days felt heavy, and love that never wavered. Their kindness was an immeasurable blessing, and we will carry our gratitude for them in our hearts forever.

Mom taught us to love deeply, laugh often, forgive freely, and hold tightly to our faith. She showed us that strength isn’t measured by how loudly you speak, but by how faithfully you love. Her laughter will echo in our memories, her wisdom will guide us, and her love will remain the foundation of our family for generations to come.

If she could leave us with one final message, we think it would be something like this: Don’t spend too much time crying for me. Love one another. Take care of your family. Keep your faith. Laugh whenever you can. And if you hear an Elvis song, think of me and smile.

“Well done, good and faithful servant.” – Matthew 25:23

In keeping with Mom’s wishes, the family will hold a private celebration of her life.

In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Mom by choosing kindness, loving others well, forgiving freely, offering grace generously, sharing a good laugh, keeping a playful spirit, and remembering not to sweat the small stuff. We can’t think of a more beautiful way to carry her love and laughter forward.

Until we meet again, Mom… thank you for loving us so completely. Save us a seat, give Dad a hug, tell Jesus we said thank you, and if Elvis is singing, enjoy that front row. We’ll miss you every day, carry you in our hearts forever, and love you always.